I was wondering what this thing about judging another is. Ever thought why do most of you all go wrong in judging people? I have time and again come across people claiming the same and the typical dialogue goes- “I was a fool to have believed in him/her.” How can you measure a person for how much can you trust him? How do you know that he/she is not selfish enough and will stand by you, come what may?
The many answers that would come out is “Judge him/her based on the sacrifices they have made” or “He/ she always claim that he/she can do anything for me.” Or “He/she is very mature”. Do these things suffice enough for us to believe them or are these the only factors? I don’t think so. What I think is if you find someone who can place you before him, if he can place his need after yours, if he has the patience to wait for the thing he wanted all his life and can in time support you to achieve your goal then I guess you can trust him. He is just worth it. Because you know that this person values you, respects your point of view and needless to say one of his desire in life would be that to fulfill yours.
Isn’t it easy this way? It can be applied to any kind of relation and if you are able to judge a person based on these qualities, I don’t think you will ever be disappointed. Well! For him to trust you, he should be able to see the same in you as well.
Do you know any other way to get your judgment about another person right?